Brenda Lyle – Florida Today
Q: I’m 70 –any tips on senior dating?
A:Finding love later in life can be a journey of hope and rediscovery! For many, it’s a healing step after the loss of a partner or the end of a long-term relationship. Technology has transformed the dating landscape, allowing you to identify compatible individuals from the safety and comfort of your own home. If you’re ready to explore the possibilities, here are some suggestions to help you make the most of it.
Technology & Romance
It’s true: technology can help you cultivate late-life romance. Some dating sites cater specifically to older adults and offer a meeting “space” without the traditional barriers of geography or circumstance. YOU remain in control of all the parameters and whether to move forward with a person who expresses interest. Many of the dating platforms listed below offer free trials, so you can explore features before committing.
- Match.com: Known for its focus on serious relationships.
- OurTime.com: Designed for singles aged 50 and older.
- eHarmony.com: Finds potential partners through a compatibility-based approach.
- SilverSingles.com: Caters to mature singles looking for companionship and love.
Your Best Online Self-
You only get one chance to make a first impression, so make it count! Many people view dating profiles for only a few seconds, then “swipe left” to move on. Create a genuine bio, sharing who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner. Be specific –and be positive about what excites you in this new chapter. Use recent photos of yourself to complete your profile. Choose clear, flattering photos that reflect your personality and show you doing things you enjoy.
Beware Scammers
Some individuals on dating sites are looking for money — not a relationship. These romance scammers sometimes invest months getting to know you, before asking for money or assistance. In 2022, romance scam losses reported to the Federal Trade Commission topped $1.3 billion! On average, victims lost $4,400. Needless to say, NEVER share credit card or Social Security numbers.
Do You
Lastly, don’t forget that simply doing what you like to do is a good way to meet like-minded people. Social groups, attending church/synagogue, classes, hobbies –or personal introductions are all avenues for meeting potential partners. The benefit of these traditional routes is your ability to observe and interact up close, before even considering a next step.
Love later in life isn’t just about finding someone else—it’s about rediscovering yourself. If you’d like to meet a new friend in person, consider the ‘Singles Mingle’ at Sonata East at Viera on February 20th. RSVP to One Senior Place at 321-751-6771.
Brenda Lyle is a Certified Care Manager and Certified Dementia Practitioner with One Senior Place, Greater Orlando. One Senior Place is a marketplace for resources and provider of information, advice, care and on-site services for seniors and their families. Submit your questions to AskOSP@OneSeniorPlace.com. For immediate help, call 321-751-6771 or visit One Senior Place, The Experts in Aging.
